These past couple weeks have been challenging. Confusion, stress, anxiety, and fatigue would describe it nicely. The Lord is doing much in and around us, but the inward emotional battles do exist. Two passages from scripture have been especially encouraging.
Deuteronomy 8:11-18, in a modified ESV paraphrase says, “Take care lest you forget the Lord your God… who fed you in the wilderness with manna that your fathers did not know, that he might humble you and test you, to do you good in the end. Beware lest you say in your heart, ‘My power and the might of my hand have gotten me this wealth.’ You shall remember the Lord your God, for it is he who gives you power.”
It is in times of need that we begin to remember the Lord. If not for challenging times, how would we know our need? These days are a joy, for they allow the Lord to humble and test us, that He would do us good in the end. It would be far more horrific if we actually believed we were able to do this by ourselves. These times remind us of our weaknesses, and our grave need to depend solely on the Lord for strength. Remembrance and thanksgiving begins today, in the midst of confusion and the unknown.
Proverbs 17:17 says this, “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.”
Mike and I have had some challenging moments in our friendship. It is at times almost laughable how differently we think and communicate. But in these moments we have an opportunity to grow from being friends to brothers. Adverse conditions can either destroy relationships or strengthen them. What an opportunity we have to work out our communication problems, and learn more about our relational deficiencies. As we have been told many times (from married folk), our wives will be grateful someday.